So what are we supposed to do now? I call grandma. It is busy. Should I update my facebook status? Should I put on a black dress? Would they mind a tight one? I dont have any other. I call Julia. We talk, dont know what to say. We start to cry, I suppose that is what you do when you dont know what else to do. I had met with some of these people, some others had been part of my life through conversations and media. How can I pay my respect? Julia: -"I wonder what Kjell Albin Abrahamsson will say".